WHAT did she say?

Monday, March 7, 2011

Send me a pic of you...


I can’t figure out why this text is sent SO often. Maybe I really am paranoid or super secretive, but this question is actually extremely annoying to me and is the reason that I’ve cut many a conversation short.

So I need to know from our man-readers, what is the point of this question? Why is it that after (some of) you meet a woman, you request a text pic? The answer to that is of interest but truthfully the reasoning behind it doesn’t matter all that much to me. The better question is why do you come at me sideways when I reply “naw, I’m good.” Trust me, following up with the question “what? You don’t trust me?” Isn’t going to get the conversation any further.

Let me just let you know a little about me. I barely send pictures to my momma’nem via text. I don’t know you, so if you think you are about to get the same privileges that the woman that birthed me BARELY gets, you thought wrong.

It’s not that I don’t trust people, but, I don’t trust people. I mean, I’m no celebrity so im not worried about you putting the pic up on some website or anything like that. But, I’m a control freak. So as much as possible, I control my image. I live in Washington, no one trusts anyone lol. I got a career and a future to watch out for. I can’t have u getting arrested and among all of your drug dealing text messages is picture of me (talking to you Detroit D-boy).

Maybe I just don’t get it.

1 comment:

  1. I believe often times we may ask for a pic to link as a photo for your contact in our phone. I don't have that problem though I jus link to facebook and i'm done! LOL Another reason mayb so that we can have a pic so that we can have something of you to look at when it can't be done physically. Either way I understand your reasoning for not sending them to just any ole body. If they get mad, its just more proof that they don't deserve one anyway!

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